Your Life As Story:
Writing Narrative Nonfiction
Publishing Your Personal Stories

Whatever your dreams may be, you have to first wedge your foot into the publishing door. Most books and teachers tell you to write a story and then query an editor about whether he'd like to see that story. Or, they suggest, query first before it's even written. Then wait, hopefully, for a positive reply.

But I don¹t think the publishing world works that way. '

In the real world of writing, people know people, and editors are more apt to publish material from people they know or have met--someone they’ve developed a relationship with--than a complete stranger.

"Once you've chosen your publications, begin a conversation."
—Norton

But why should you put yourself through such torture? Those editors are in the business of saying “No.” If you give them any reason to say no--and asking for entree is ample reason--it¹s likely they will say no.

Instead slip in the back door like a friend would do. Sit down in front of the editor¹s desk (metaphorically), and talk to him like an equal.

Yes, you may be rejected for awhile, but in time you will know those editors, and that will put you a lot further down the road of writing and publishing, than if you send out submissions anonymously from your garret.